Contacting opponant

Come on guys its not that hard is it, please contact your opponant to arrange your game and please answer your messages, and before someone post's back sometimes you don't see messages surely after the 10th message as been sent you can see, before you log off can't you just scroll down the page to see if you have any, it takes like 5 seconds to do that. myself and lloydero can't hold your hands all the way.

SO PLEASE COME ON